Being a
work widow while my husband is working mandatory overtime, I needed something
to focus on instead of allowing myself to feel lonely. Indulging in my preference
for foreign films, Cinema Sunday will be time to spoil myself. Today, I watched
the 2013 movie Wadjda, written by the first female Saudi Arabian director, Haifaa al-Mansour.
The movie
starts off at an all-girls school, where they are singing parts of the Quran. We
get to meet Wadjda, an only child, in pursuit to get a bike of her own. For
those who do not know, Saudi women and other Islamic females do not take part
in exercises that may damage the hymen. Wadjda doesn’t realize this or care why;
she is relentless in her pursuit. Women to this day are not allowed drive a car
in Saudi Arabia.
Wadjda
starts to save money to save for a brand new green bike. Some of how she gets
raises money for this bike is questionable by her cultures standards ‒ "haram",
or forbidden if you will. She makes and sells soccer team bracelets, exchanges notes
between unmarried couples, pretends to cry are all part of her undertakings to
raise money. Her act has not fooled her schoolmaster, who is on to her
shenanigans. She soon enters a Quran reciting contest for prize money. Her
skills are doubtful, but the instructors encourage her on. They hope this is
more a reform of her urge.
Her parent’s
love each other but we learn through phone conversations is that her father’s
mother wants him to take a second wife. This
is culturally acceptable in Saudi Arabia. There is no question that Wadjda’s
mother is not happy about sharing her husband. Wadjda is an only child; her
mother cannot have more because she almost died in childbirth as we learn in
the film. So the paternal grandmother pressures her father to conceive a son
through a second wife. Heck men get pressure about infertility too. And how
many wives would any man really want if they are fully enamored with another? Secondary
infertility is just as devastating and is no less a disease. In the Islamic
faith, many of the medical options for infertility are not acceptable or “haram”.
In the end,
if you are not going to see the movie, Wadjda’s mother is devastated by the
marriage of her beloved husband to another woman. She realizes that her
greatest love is Wadjda. If you are going to see the movie, that is wonderful
and I didn’t ruin the ending for you. Director Haifaa al-Mansour is also
adapting this into a book if that is more your style.
Women, no
matter where they are in the world have the same dreams that we take for
granted. Things we don’t question such as driving, riding a bike, taking a
fresh breath of air without a veil, and last but not least, and treatment for
infertility. I’m going to make my life count for them, with or without
children.
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original content copyright Nancy De Lazzaro Brannum, 2013-2015
